Interesting! See OAP Freeze's opinion on Pastor E.A Adeboye's advice on marriage

The popular On-Air-Personality, Freeze breaks silence on pastor Adeboye's advice on marriage, as he shares his on opinion and advice.

While he supported the fact a spouse should be able to pray
for 60 minutes (1 hour), he never agreed with cooking as a criteria for marrying a woman...He wrote:

This week, I got so many emails and DMs asking for my opinion on Pastor Adeoye’s message about marrying a woman who cant cook etc.
This, being a spiritual issue cannot be tackled with my usual ‘fayose’ approach, as I needed to hear from God first.
There were four main issues raised and I will try my best to address all.

I wasn’t in the service and I am relying on the emails and DMs as a point of reference.

The only part of the message I agree 100% with, is that no one should marry a man or woman who can’t pray for 1 hour straight.

The bible instructs us in the book of 1st Thessalonians chapter 5 verse 17 to “pray without ceasing”. In as much as we like to operate under
the assumption that we control our own lives, in my opinion, the greatest part of our lives is controlled by external forces.

Let’s take the instance of former president Olusegun Obasanjo who was a free man in 1996, by 1997
he was imprisoned for treason, by 1998 he was released from prison after the sudden death of Abacha and by 1999 he was president of the federal Republic of Nigeria. If in 1996, Obasanjo had known he was going to be in prison the following
year, he probably would have
gone to sew prison uniform, awaiting his conviction.

Also if in 1997, with a life sentence
hanging around his neck, he
had known that in a little over
a year he would become president, he would have made adequate preparations, but guess what? Life happens.

I remember having a chat over drinks with my boss Mr Moussalli, who told me that he used to stay in Nice, when Lebanon was being bombed because it was safe and calm.
Who would ever have guessed that Nice itself was going to be be the scene of a gruesome terrorist attack about a month ago? So wisdom doesn’t guarantee safety and strength doesn’t guarantee bread. (Ecclesiastes 9:11) Even the strongest man and the richest man in the world put together cannot
control a hurricane. “When life happens during your race, you will need a sufficient amount of grace!”~FRZ

This Grace can only be received through ceaseless prayer!

Talking about marrying a woman that cannot cook is another kettle of fish entirely, as I do not see why this is a criteria for marriage in 2016.
If your woman can’t cook you have many options which include teaching her, hiring a cook, cooking your own meals or eating out and each has its own distinct and
enjoyable flavour. Imagine serving your woman a meal in bed on a Saturday morning, she would gladly retaliate with a favor ‘wink’.

About marrying a man that has a job
I can’t disagree more, especially
coming from a man of God who is
supposed to preach faith and grace
as against logic. With the present
state of the Nigerian economy, in my own opinion, at least 10% percent of couples will experience job losses within one week of marriage, considering the way companies are laying off staff. A friend of mine lost his job the 3rd day after his wedding, and another friend lost his job 2 days before his first son was born. So why place so much emphasis on having a job, when there is hardly any job security in Nigeria, and you could lose that job in a heartbeat!
So the wife of my friend who lost his job 3 days after their wedding should file for a divorce?

Another thing I heard that Daddy
allegedly said was that anyone who
wanted sex everyday should come
for deliverance. It’s much easier for a man in his 70s to preach this, and as I turned 40 this year it’s a bit easier for me to understand. However I would have walked out on anyone trying to preach this to me at 31 as it meant setting myself up for fornication since my woman would probably say “Daddy said it’s not food so its not everyday”

The bible is very clear on this, as it
states in the book of 1st Corinthians
chapter 7 verse 4, that “The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife” Therefore, refusing your
spouse sex is dangerous and is not supported by God, as it can lead to adultery which has more serious
consequences than daily sex.

I hear that there are some tribes in Nigeria that if you marry from, and cannot satisfy daily, you dig the grave of that union with your own
hands. Everyone is physically different, therefore our needs for sex differ.

In my humble opinion, sexual compatibility is of a far greater relevance to a successful marriage than sexual frequency. Therefore, my advice is; choose your spouse wisely, while in constant prayer, as
being single is miles better than being in a bad marriage! ~FRZ